"In the end we are to be responsible for all that takes place as well as the fact that we are responsible for the lies we allow and how much truth we are willing to seek and accept."Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings and Revelations II, p 545
Have you ever pondered what “acceptance” means to you energetically and how it might affect your body and well-being?
When we hear the word acceptance or to accept we often think it has something to do with agreeing or receiving. I accept what you say is correct or I accept and sign for this package.
So why then do we so often choose to accept abuse, accept lies and when we do that what sort of package are we delivering to or receiving in our body? Equally why do some of us find it so hard to accept love? – it seems there is a bit more going on here than might appear on the surface!
“It is very hard to accept that we are not who we are until you know who you are.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations II, p 325
“You want to feel love – accept that you are love.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations II, p 299
“Anything you do without the real you and without the whole you cannot be true because you are doing it to get something: recognition and acceptance -- and that wears the body out.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 187
“The child that grows up pandering to the outer in search of love, driven by a need, which searches for recognition and acceptance as a form of love, will develop into the adult who then lives by that imposed form of mania.”Serge Benhayon The Way It Is, p 8
“When you walk in the acceptance of the greater you, you initiate yourself, that is, you will unfold your multidimensional awareness.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations II, p 318
“Our truest form of digestion is activated by acceptance, that is, accepting things as they are/life as it is.Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 363
The basis of true acceptance is found in understanding. And the key to understanding is un-attached observance. ”
“When we begin to accept the enormous responsibility we are here on earth to re-discover, we will know that there is no space we are to leave void of our true light.”Serge Benhayon Time, Space and all of us, Book 2 – Space, p 61
“It is far wiser to accept and live the future now than it is to orbit the Sun many times in order to delay and hence arrive many years later at a point we cannot avoid arriving at.”Serge Benhayon Time, Space and all of us, Book 2 – Space, p 414
Who we truly are is not always who we think ourselves to be. This may sound a bit odd but in-truth there is an inner-most essence within us that we are each born with that remains untainted and true and there is also a version of us that we present to the world that can never match this beauty.
This inner-most essence is the Oneness of the Soul, and our spirit is that wayward part that has separated from it and chosen instead to pursue an individualised life in which we constantly seek recognition, acceptance and relief from the fact that we do not live true to this essence, which is Love.
By not accepting the love that we are, we end up accepting a far lesser version of ourselves that comes nowhere near the magnitude of who we truly are. Put simply – by not accepting love, we accept abuse.
We then accept this reduction as ‘normal’ simply because currently there are far more of us accepting who we are not than there are those living and claiming who we truly are.
That is, at this current point in time as has been our ill-lived way throughout the ages, we are choosing en-masse to live a vastly reduced version of ourselves that we have subscribed to and told to be based on all the ideals, images and beliefs we have been fed since we were a child. And by accepting this lesser life we deny ourselves the beauty and divinity we are from and choose instead to express through the fragmented part of us that has withdrawn from such love and truth.
The audio and quotes below offer us an understanding of how we have allowed ourselves to become divided in this way.
Are you living the real you?
Are we expressing who we truly are, or just managing an acceptable version of how the world has told us to be?
“Create the need for acceptance and recognition, as a result of raising children to not be in their inner-heart, and you have guaranteed an incessant need for anything that identifies and panders to that desperate need.”Serge Benhayon The Way of Initiation, p 406
“Placing great effort in what one does or achieves in order to receive recognition and acceptance, is placing your entire identification in the hands of others. Who you are is always found within. The deeper one goes into this, the greater knowing of whom one truly is. Then, no outer-force can identify you because you will know by no other force but by that which lives within.”Serge Benhayon A Treatise on Consciousness, p 350
“The child develops intelligence as a form of getting accepted and recognised when in-truth they wish or crave to be met by the quality of their inner-heart. The fact is that – for most, intelligence is used to gain acceptance and recognition in a world that recognises intelligence over the inner love we all naturally have within.”Serge Benhayon The Way of Initiation, p 573
“Aside from those very few that can energetically say true love was their experience, the reality is that from young, we got recognised for what we did and not for whom we are. Little ‘true’ love was our experience and, think about it –Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 207
how can our parents truly love us if they themselves have not been truly loved?”
All life is constantly communicating to us, and therefore, if we are constantly receiving communication from life, then we are constantly being given an opportunity to accept all that we are receiving or not. It may be in the form of words, a sound, a movement, someone’s touch, something you look at, in an exchange with another individual, a group, between you and nature, or you and life. In this communication, are we truly open to accept and receive all that we are being communicated, or do we only choose to see the parts that suit us?
What if life not only was asking you to observe and accept the ‘not so good’ in yourself and others, but also equally communicating to you that there is a truth and Divinity to accept? This would mean, not only accepting and observing the imperfections and ‘not so good’ but equally saying a full and unconditional ‘yes’ to all that you already are and have been divinely designed to be at essence.
In the following audio Serge Benhayon explains how the Science of Acceptance is simply the embodiment of our own beauty. We learn that the key to accepting the grandness we are is to also accept our imperfections with the understanding that no one person is given it all, but we each can express all that we are, so that together we can deliver the All.
Accepting your imperfections and grandness
This beautiful audio about acceptance presents how by accepting your imperfections you get to accept and experience your awesomeness!
And so perhaps the question we must ask ourselves here is: do we accept who we truly are and thus the absolute Oneness, Love and Universal Intelligence we come from or, do we accept a far lesser version of this and in so doing accept a vastly reduced intelligence that once adopted will not let us see that we belong to a far grander intelligence that would not and could not ever lie to us by virtue of the fact that its essence is love and thus the truth we are each born from?
Acceptance is the gateway to evolution
The more accepting we are of ourselves and others the more we evolve.
“The key to not check-out in life is to develop acceptance.Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 462
What is it that we need to learn to accept?
Accept first that you are love and that no one is responsible to bring you that love but you being it.
Second step is to accept that not all are ready to accept that immutable fact.”
“Our one-unified and equal-to-all true perception and our equal-to-all levels of energetic awareness of what is truly happening, are always there, and it only requires a choice which leads to the permission that then leads to the allowing which is then followed by the acceptance, that then leads to the knowing, once again.”Serge Benhayon An Open Letter to Humanity, p 374
“When a certain level of awareness is reached, there is what is known as an allowing or an acceptance of the greater all that one cannot see yet has a knowing of due to the developed awareness.”Serge Benhayon Time, Space and all of us, Book 2 – Space, p 274
“A thought, followed by some form of acceptance, derives itself at a given set of knowledge that is then fully accepted and then passed on to others as a form of accepted belief. That belief then comes with a conviction because it has changed that person from where they were to something else. It is 'that something else' that may not be true.”Serge Benhayon The Way It Is, p 346
“Great forms of deceit are running human life. We are being lied to on so many levels and fronts it is too obvious and too easy to spell out. And so, if the lies are so easily detectable, what is the deceit? There is no deceit by the liars; they are just merrily lying to us. On this colossal deception we like to put thought or intrigue into looking for a clever and sinister plot when the truth is – we are simply being lied to because we allow it. Perhaps the sinister and deceitful plot is not the controlling intelligence that merrily lies but those who accept the lies.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations II, p 543
Teachings of Serge Benhayon presented and compiled by Liane Mandalis and Nicola Lessing