“Be the man you know you are and not the man society has told you to be.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 553
“All men are naturally gentle, and we ought to remember that the word ‘gentlemen’ has its roots in this fact.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 551
“Let a boy be who he truly is. He will then grow up to be the man he truly is to be.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 561
“What do men want most? All men want to be loved for who they truly are.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 560
What is a true man?
Men have reinterpreted what it is to be a real man. They are innately tender, caring and nurturing, only different to a woman in their physicality.
The way the world has made men
Why has the world made men unable to be who they really are?
Why do men use ingrained behaviours?
Is it possible men use ingrained behaviours to avoid being their full potential because they fear rejection?
"Men are to learn that at the core of any issue is their deep issue of rejection. It is this that leads to them having an unconscious level of self-loathing and or lack of self-worth."Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 559
The greatest form of friendship for men
Men are able to have a deeper friendship with each other when they do not get stuck in their masculinity.
Men compete women compare
Why do men compete and women compare?
“In the essence of a man is the caring love of God – in the essence of a woman is the nurturing love of God. And thus, by nature, it is nothing less than Divine when these two truly make love.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 563
“If a man is great or if a woman is great, it is because they are expressing themselves from the heart and not because they are one or the other.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 553
“Men are just as sensitive as women. If we keep expecting them to be hard and tough, they will continue to override their delicate nature.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 555
“Men should cry more often – each tear will be like a brick coming off the protective wall.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 561
You are a man – eat and be strong
This is the first of five linked audio excerpts where four different men talk about their experience with food and body image. In this captivating talk James shares his experience as an AFL (football) player and how he ate huge amounts to be big and strong and how sick that made him.
You are a man – must have the right weight
In this amusing (and yet it is not really funny at all) second talk in a five part series on men and body image, Matt shares how he was always called skinny and the lengths he went to, to try and gain weight.
You are a man – get big and muscly
In this third excerpt of a five part series Michael shares his experience with ‘bigorexia’ and bodybuilding - it was HUGE (literally) in his life until one day Michael woke up and wondered what on earth he was doing.
"A man identifies with his physical strength at a very early age. If this does not work, he will escape into his mind not long thereafter and use that as his strength. We ought to let our young boys feel who they truly are and NOT tell them what they need to be."Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 560
You are a man – bulk up at all costs
In this fourth presentation of the five part series Kris shares the lengths he went to gain muscles that he thought he needed to impress a girl.
You are a man – not a protein powder receptacle
In the fifth and final excerpt in this five part series, James and Matt reveal how big buckets of protein powder equals big muscles – but at what cost to your body?
“Men hang on to their ways because they are deeply insecure and terrified of making changes. They are in-truth avoiding rejection and thus, they work very hard at ingraining their patterns, which make them know who they are even when what they are doing is not working.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 566
“A man either seeks to satisfy or to push everybody away. Both of these come from being rejected as who they truly are.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 559
“Men are not naturally cruel. Their ease with being cruel has been introduced to them from young by a world that keeps telling them that they are to be tough and rugged.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 559
“If a man loves his son and allows him to be just like he is on the inside, the son will grow-up to ignite the world with love.”Serge Benhayon Esoteric Teachings & Revelations, p 564