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Slavery under a new name – evil reinvents itself
When did slavery officially end? From the billion-dollar sex trade industry to child labour and domestic violence we have more slavery today than we have ever had, it’s got a new name – people trafficking.
Couples therapy – part 2 - Another way of being
In the writers words ... "therapy was so revealing ... and positive change was discernible almost from the very first session" This couple built on that experience and are now enjoying a renewed and deepened marriage.
Marriage, Couples therapy, Love, Sex, Counseling, Relationship problems
Pain during sex – what might this be telling you?
This article discusses painful sex – being a common but not openly discussed problem for many women. There is information available on ‘coping mechanisms’, but what might be the root cause of pain during sex? Is pain during sex something to deny, or ‘cope’ with or instead a call to stop, review and develop a more honest and trusting way of being with our partners, shedding light on how we ‘make love’.
Sex, Making love, Health conditions, Relationships, Pain, Intimacy
Sex versus making love – an older woman’s perspective!
I am now 70 and in the last few years I have come to know the difference between having sex and making love, knowing that unlike having sex, there is no beginning or end to making love.
Plastic surgery, designer vaginas & true beauty
Labiaplasty is on the rise with the most dramatic increase in procedures amongst young women. The insatiable quest to be beautiful is reaching new extremes. Where is the true Beauty?
Beauty myths, Body positive, Sex, Teenagers, Connection, Body image
Sex vs making love – is there a difference?
Is it possible to make love without having sex? Can you make love all day long? ... And what does a ‘healthy’ love life actually look like? Kyla* doesn't hold back in this cutting edge article on the topic.
Making love vs having sex 101
The way you live outside of the bedroom can have a profound effect on your quality of intimate contact, transforming easy to come by sex with a profoundness of truly making love.
The difference between sex & making love – part 1
You may have come to a place where you feel that sex as you know it is not all it was cracked up to be. You are not alone, many women and men feel the same way.
Let’s talk about the meaning of sex
What is the meaning of sex? If we know the true meaning of sex, would it inspire us to make love instead of just having sex?
The difference between sex & making love – part 2
If we can identify that there is a difference between sex and making love, and we want to experience the possibility of making love, how do we start to make the change?
There’s always Tinder . . .
Millennials and Tinder – the price may be your sensitivity. Do apps like Tinder lead to casual sex that numbs our finer feelings?
Technology, Sex, Relationships, Lifestyle, Accountability, Relationship problems
From sex worker to a return to sacredness
At the age of 17 I found myself inside a brothel. You may be surprised to know that this was not due to a dramatic story of childhood abuse or neglect . . . I was simply lost . . .
Sex, Self-worth, Alcohol, Eating disorder, Empowerment, Sacredness, Shift work
Erectile dysfunction: Getting to the heart of the matter
Medical studies have shown a direct link between erectile dysfunction and heart disease, but why? Is there something more to how we have commonly viewed this condition?
A real women’s revolution is beckoning us forward
History tells us the sexual revolution has already happened but this article on the real women’s revolution questions how it has really impacted women having sex, their lives, relationships and place in the world.
Empowerment, Feminism, Sex, Self-empowerment, Self-love, Gender equality
The sexualisation of the young – learning a Social Script through pornography and the rise of new sexual and reproductive health issues
Do you think porn is ‘in’ and a modern way to learn about sex? Just have a look at the new sexual and reproductive health issues and you will see a subscription to abuse and violence.
Internet porn – the ultimate educator for normalising abuse and violence in our relationships
As we determine what intimacy, love and connection means in our society, internet porn has become a global sex education and created a new ‘normal’. Do we want this abuse to infiltrate and influence our children’s lives?
Mainstreaming porn – who is truly educating our kids?
The mass media makes massive profit mainstreaming porn through every corner of society. Does it affect our children to be educated and constantly exposed to pornographic imagery and does that make sexually charged situations become “normal”?
Beyond the sheets. Exploring our relationship with love, sex and intimacy
A gay man’s reflection on a time when he fell in love with a woman and found himself questioning love, sex and intimacy only to find that love had nothing to do with sexuality or gender, discovering that love can exist with anyone.
Painful sex or making love post menopause?
Painful sex after menopause is accepted by many women as ‘just the way it is’. What if understanding the difference between making love and having sex was an important key to remedying this situation?
Is making love more than just sex?
We seem to have always equated the term ‘making love’ to actually having sex. What if there is way more to this term than just the physical act – what would this look like in day-to-day life?
Love is Love: Gender and the truth in Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night
Twelfth Night is a dark, bittersweet comedy about Love. Shakespeare pulls the plug on the folly of human behaviour that we subscribe to when it comes to gender, love, and desire . . . all of which we have imagined love to be but which actually sets us up to keep love at bay.
Sex, Making love, Romance, Same sex relationships, Sacredness, Time, Gender
There is nothing more sexy than making love
I used to think I was pretty sexy… but I have come to learn that there is nothing more sexy than making love…
Looking for love in all the wrong places: before and after casual sex
From a very young age all I wanted when I grew up was to find love, be married and have six sons. But through a series of events, that dream was shattered and I started looking for love in all the wrong places.
Sexual relief or making love: men talk
Read of the experience of a group of men discussing what making love means, what they have come to understand, and how it is quite different to sexual relief.
Sex, Livingness, Intimacy, Making love, Healthy relationships
Intimacy for men: is it really just about sex?
Intimacy for men, is it really just about sex? Perhaps intimacy is something entirely different that is available to all men.
It is never about alcohol
Most drinkers believe a little of alcohol is OK, but is it OK to not be who you truly are?
Alcohol, Inflammation, Sugar, Hurt, Evolution, Addiction, Anti-social behaviour, Awareness, Sex
Young men and the pressure around sex
Why do young boys feel that they know nothing when it comes to sex, yet it appears everyone else around them knows it all? In this audio three men discuss the pressures they faced when it came to having sex for the first time.
Love and Relationship Audio
A life changing collection of free audio on Love and Relationship – two of our favourite subjects but how much do we really know about them?
Free downloads, Appreciation, Brotherhood, Communication, Dating, Essence, Evolution, Harmony, Intimacy, Love, Relationships, Sex, Valentine's Day, Friendship, Making love
Free love and war
Men are conditioned to accept pornography at a young age, but does it have to be that way?
Supply and Demand of the sex robot
With a massive rise in porn and the billion dollar sex-tech industry, it’s time to look at why many of us are running from true intimacy and love with another. Why do we choose sex and stimulation over making love and evolution?
Sex, love and married life
I was a shy child and never really felt like I connected to anyone growing up, so it was a surprise, or maybe I should call it a relief, that a man would take an interest in me at the age of 19.
Confidence, Healing, Love, Marriage, Sex
What we aren’t told about periods.
Imagine being told the truth about periods from the very beginning. Is it possible that the impact this could have worldwide for both women and men would be a game changer?
Are we trading sex for love?
We live in a society where sex is often used as a measure of our worth and proof that we are loved. But if it was as straightforward as that, why are so many people in romantic relationships feeling empty and loveless?